Open Question: Why it’s hard to reciprocate being nice to a Married man when deep inside, I’m feeling the same?
Why it’s hard to reciprocate being nice to a Married man when deep inside, I’m feeling the same? I guess the reason for this one was that I saw some quality from my HR manager’s personalities that I’m not seeing in my spouse since I got married. When I was young, I always dreamed of my future husband to be in a White collar job because I came from that type of family where I can see my Mom helping my Dad tie his necktie, help him choose the best professional suit so my Dad looks great in the office. But when I get married, I end up with an outdoor person who never dress professional except on special occasions because he’s working as an outdoor person who’s jobs is to deal with nature so he needs to have at least a rugged clothes as he’s always in the field. Not only that, I’m the one that support most our family’s expenses because my spouse job is not a high paying job compare to my Dad who’s bringing the big pay to my Mom to support the family. For the first few years of being married I thought its okay but deep inside, I get sick & tired of being the Head of the family. I try to talked to my husband about this few times if he can find another job that would me feel like I can rely on him on our needs but until now , we’re still stuck with the same situation . So that might be the reason why I can’t stop liking my HR manager even if he’s married because he got most of the qualities that I want from a Partner other than he’s married and I’m married. The more I think about my HR manager , the more I tend to have less feelings towards my husband except Self Pity towards him that’s why I can’t hurt him because I felt guilty. I know it easy for anybody to advise, STOP talking with married man if you’re married itself but if you as a woman want a little bit color in your life , I guess there’s no wrong in fantasizing other man too as long as there’s no string attached and it’s only fantasy just to make you feel like Alive! Man does that one too. But fantasizing someone does help me uplift my feelings because I’m less grumpy when I got home, I don’t expect to much from my husband because I got the satisfaction already of being happy at work So if admiring Married man is improperly then I guess all woman are miserable never mind Hypocrites for telling the world that since their married that they will never intend to like someone other than their husband.

Resolved Question: Do you think these knee-highs would look slutty with a school uniform?
http://www.amazon.com/White-Opaque-Satin-Knee-High-Stocking/dp/B003807SRM I have those and a few similar ones, do you think it would be slutty or something to wear them with my uniform-I also wear heels (small ones of course) and a necktie so...

Open Question: 3. John has 3 suits, 10 shirts, and 12 neckties. He will need to buy some more clothes if he wants to come to?
I really need help with this problem for my math class. Can someone please help me? Okay, so I already figured this out. This is only my second or third time posting on here and did not realize that the whole question would not paste into the title. So, for interest sake, I will try harder and finish what I started. The full question was: What's wrong with this statement? John has 3 suits, 10 shirts, and 12 neckties. He will need to buy some more clothes if he wants to to work in a different outfit everyday for a year.

Voting Question: Demons: Do you prefer neckties or bow ties?
Bow ties are cool.

Resolved Question: Am I likely to get the job?
The interview was for a campus job at my university. My interview was about two hours earlier. I was interviewed by two people, and it was real short (~5 minutes). I made eye contacts but spoke little. I answered mostly yes and no. For my appearance, I wore a red shirt with a fitting necktie ,black pairs shoes and pants, and my hair was combed (but it was a little long). There were something that I should have said, but I couldn’t think of it at the time. For instance, the female interviewer asked me, “Are you a quick learner?” I knew by heart that the answer “yes” will not impress them, but I said it anyways. I felt stupid. After the interview I just thought of a much better answer. I should have said, “It depends. If the job requires me to learn swing dancing, I’d probably be a slow learner. If it involves computers and technologies with hand-on training (which is exactly what the job is), then I’m a quick learner.” That answer should have impress them, but my mind was blank at that time. Before the interview ended, the lady asked me if I’m hired when will be able to work. I said after Tuesday. She asked me what is the best way to contact me. Telephone, I answered. She then told me that she will call me on Monday (Today is Friday). I know that the second paragraph doesn’t have anything to do with whether I will get the job or not. I just want to put it there, because it’s a good way to impress the interviewer. I somewhat of a talker. Although I wasn’t nervous (may be a little), I couldn’t think of anything to say. What do you guys think? Will I likely get the job? How can I improve?